Set up the device together
Make the set-up part of the excitement. Sit down with your child as the device is switched on for the first time.
Agree on passwords, privacy settings and which apps can be downloaded. Early involvement helps you understand how they’ll use their new phone or tablet and helps build trust.
Turn on parental controls
Most devices have built-in parental controls that let you manage screen time, in-app purchases and downloads.
You’ll find these in Settings under “Family” or “Parental Controls”.
Check privacy settings on social apps
Before your child starts posting or messaging, take a minute to review their privacy options.
Quick tips:
- Instagram: Go to Settings > Privacy > Account Privacy and switch to Private account so only approved followers can see posts.
- Snapchat: Tap your Bitmoji > Settings > Privacy Controls > Contact Me > choose Friends only.
- TikTok: Under Settings and Privacy > Privacy, turn on Private account and review who can comment or message.
These smalls steps limit who can see, contact or tag your child online.
Talk about sharing and secrets
Let your child know they can always come to you if something online doesn’t feel right.
Explain that no one online should ever as them to keep secrets, share personal information or send photos.
Keeping communication open is one of the best ways to keep them safe.
Create strong passwords together
Help your child choose a password that’s easy for them to remember but hard for others to guess.
Encourage them not to share passwords, even with close friends and to use different passwords for different apps.
You don’t have to be a tech expert
Online safety doesn’t have to be complicated. A few small steps can make a big difference.